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General Wedding Information

The Traditional Wedding - Who Pays For What?

There are many expenses associated with a wedding. By custom, some fall to the bride or her family. Others, to the groom or his family. Keeping it all straight can be a real challenge - even for florist! Fortunately, Modern Bride Magazine has all the answers. Here's Modern Bride's list of who pays for what:

The Bride

  • Wedding ring for the groom
  • Wedding gift for the groom
  • Presents for the bridal attendants
  • Personal stationery
  • Accommodations for out-of-town maid of honor and bride's attendants
  • Her physical exam

The Bride's Family

  • The engagement party
  • The reception, including food, wedding cake, beverage, decorations, music, flowers, and gratuities for the bartenders and waiters.
  • Wedding gift for the newlyweds
  • Wedding invitations, announcements, and mailing costs
  • Bride's wedding attire / trousseau
  • Engagement and wedding photography
  • The ceremony, including rental of the sanctuary; fees for the organist, soloist or choir; and sexton; aisle carpets/runners and/or canopy; music; flowers; and any additional cost for decorations
  • Bridesmaids' bouquets
  • Parking costs, coat-check fees, gratuities for traffic attendants
  • Transportation for the bridal party, both to the wedding ceremony and from the ceremony to the reception
  • Bridesmaids' luncheon
  • Wedding albums
  • Videographer's fee
  • Personalized napkins, matchbooks, and guest towels

The Groom

  • Wedding ring for the bride
  • Wedding gift for the bride
  • The marriage license
  • Gifts for the best man, groomsmen,
    and ushers
  • Bride's bouquet, bride's going-away
    corsage, mothers' corsages, and
    boutonnieres for all men in the wedding party
  • The honeymoon
  • His physical exam
  • Fee for clergy

The Groom's Family

  • Clothes for the wedding
  • Their travel expenses
  • Wedding gift for the newlyweds
  • The rehearsal dinner and any other expenses they elect to assume

The Best Man

  • His travel expenses
  • Wedding attire
  • Wedding gift for the newlyweds

The Groomsmen and Ushers

  • Their individual travel expenses
  • Wedding attire
  • Wedding gift for the newlyweds

The Maid of Honor

  • Her travel expenses
  • Wedding attire
  • Wedding gift for the newlyweds

The Attendants

  • Their individual travel expenses
  • Wedding attire
  • Wedding gift for the newlyweds

The Guests

  • Their individual travel expenses
  • Wedding gift for the newlyweds

Additional information can be found at www.modernbride.com